The past has shaped me but does not define me

Isaiah 43:18 offers a gentle reminder that the past is not meant to bind us, but rather to inform us of God’s redeeming love and guidance. In the stillness of early morning reflections, these words echo in my heart, challenging me to abandon the burden of former days and to embrace the promise of a future shaped by divine grace. I have often found myself caught in the snares of memory, lingering on mistakes, losses and regrets, as though the past were a script that I could not rewrite. Yet the prophet Isaiah, speaking on behalf of a loving and compassionate God, invites us to let go of what once was and to trust in the unfolding of a new and better chapter.

Living in the present moment does not diminish the importance of our history; rather, it offers us the opportunity to learn and to grow. I have seen many a friend and neighbour weighed down by what has been, their eyes clouded by sorrow and disappointment. It is a common human experience to cling to past hurts, to replay conversations and failures in our mind, often wondering if the wounds will ever heal. Yet in these moments, Isaiah 43:18 calls us away from the mire of memory. It encourages us to allow God to draw up a new narrative, one where forgiveness, renewal and hope take centre stage. I have found that when I surrender the clutches of old regrets, I am able to experience the peace that comes from living in the present and stepping boldly into the future.

There is an exquisite beauty in the idea that our past does not have the final say in our story. This truth resonates with the notion of rebirth and resurrection that lies at the heart of the Christian faith. Christ’s sacrifice offers us a chance to be made new, to leave behind the sins and mistakes of our earlier lives. The verse does not suggest a denial of our history, but rather a refusal to allow it to dictate our future. In my own journey, moments of profound transformation have arisen when I have chosen to release the chains of bygone errors and to accept the possibility of change. This deliberate act of letting go is not an act of forgetting, but a conscious decision to allow God’s restorative power to mend the broken pieces of our lives.

While the struggle to forget can seem insurmountable at times, the assurance of God’s love provides a steadfast foundation. Every day, I am reminded that the past, with all its trials and tribulations, is but a stepping stone towards the fullness of God’s plan for me. It is not a path that we are condemned to retrace but a road that leads us to wisdom and deeper reliance on the Creator. The more I embrace the liberating message of Isaiah 43:18, the more I realise that every moment is a gift – a chance to begin anew. This perspective transforms ordinary experiences into opportunities for spiritual growth and deep communion with God.

In the quiet moments of prayer, I often reflect on the possibility of renewal that this verse invites. There is a subtle yet powerful invitation in the words: a call to rise above the noise of past mistakes and to listen to the whisper of God’s love. I have discovered that surrendering the hold of the past opens up a space within the heart that is receptive to divine guidance. It is as though the very act of releasing old burdens clears the way for fresh insights and the gentle stirring of the Spirit. In this way, Isaiah 43:18 is not merely a command, but a promise – a promise that no matter how heavy the chains of memory, God’s redeeming grace is always within reach.

As I journey onward, I strive to remember that the past has shaped me, yet it does not define me. The power of God works in every moment, inviting me to partake in the reauthoring of my life. Even when old pains resurface, I recall the eternal truth in these words. Letting go is not easy, but every step in renewal brings me closer to God. I trust completely in His unfailing guidance always. 

Deborah
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Welcome to Runnymede Christian Fellowship, an Egham Church


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Runnymede Christian Fellowship is a church based in Egham but serving a much larger geographical area. Those who call us home come from EghamVirginia Water, Staines, Englefield Green, Egham Hythe, Pooley Green, Maidenhead, Heathrow, Slough, Ashford, Thorpe, Windsor, Woking and beyond.

Our church is a community of believers who regularly meet to share life and show God's love. We do this by encouraging and serving each other and the community. We believe in the power of prayer and are always happy to pray for you.
 

Church - What to expect

Our Sunday service is available to stream online at 11:00 a.m. You can join us on Livestream or via Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube or X (Twitter).

The Sunday Service is now held at Strodes College, Strodes College Lane in Egham open to all, so if you would like to join us, please feel free to do so. If you have any questions, please call us on 01784 637010.

We run a physical Sunday School most weeks. If you would like your children to receive a weekly Sunday School teaching pack that you can do from home, please email us at admin@e-runnymede.co.uk so that we can send you the materials.
 

Church on Sunday at Strodes College, Egham


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Our Sunday service starts at 11:00 a.m. and typically lasts about 90 minutes.

We start each service with lively worship with songs from around the world, followed by inspired Bible-based teaching. All our sermons are recorded and are available as a podcast after the service.

We have a monthly cycle of Sunday services, with our Communion Service being on the first Sunday of each month and an All-Age All-Nation Service on the second Sunday of each month. Our other Sunday services include Spirit-focused and teaching services.

We have consciously adopted being a blended church that is both for those online and face-to-face. You are welcome to join us on Livestream or via Facebook, Linkedin, YouTube, or X (Twitter), or you can catch up and watch the recordings later.
 

Joining us in person

Visiting a new and unfamiliar church for the first time can be intimidating, but we want to ensure you feel welcome and enjoy your time with us. A friendly face will be waiting to meet you at the entrance and welcome you. 

Doors open at 10:30 a.m. for coffee and prayer. Our Sunday Service starts at 11:00 a.m. and typically runs for about 90 minutes, normally followed by tea and coffee.
 

Driving and Car Parking

Our Sunday Morning Service is now held at Strodes College, Strodes College Lane, Egham, TW20 9DR, which has plenty of Parking. Click on the link for directions to RCF.

We have plenty of parking spaces right outside the building. Spaces are reserved near the entrance for anyone with mobility problems (for those with a blue badge). Please let us know if you need to use one of these spaces, have any special needs, or require any assistance.

The car parking area is a public area, so please ensure that your children are under your control and that, for their safety, they do not run around in the car park.
 

Visiting with children?

Everyone is welcome at RCF. We encourage everyone, young and old, to join the service. We have Sunday School, which starts after worship and runs during the sermon for 30 to 40 minutes for children aged 4 to 12. On the second Sunday of each month, we have a shorter All-Aged All Nations Service, where the children stay for the worship and the sermon.
 

After Church

We chat over coffee and biscuits after church on the first, third and fourth Sundays. If you want to get more acquainted, why not join us for a Sunday lunch with some of our members? The meal is on us! Please contact us and let us know. We would love to share a meal and get to know you better!

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Want to connect?

If you want to connect with us either to be part of our wider online community or to join our Sunday gatherings, please let us know through our connect card.
 

Any Questions?

If you have any questions, please review our FAQ page. Here, you’ll find answers to many common questions. If you still have questions or concerns, please contact us; we’d love to hear from you.
 

WE LOOK FORWARD TO WELCOMING YOU TO RCF!!

 
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